I am a gay man in my late 30s. Last year through a work social group I met and became friends with a colleague from another part of the organisation. He is 28, very funny, intelligent and great company. He has had girlfriends before but was so keen on being friends I wondered if something was up. One night after a party he told me he had strong feelings for me and kissed me. We had long discussions after. He told me he had not been with a man before but had intense feelings for me.